It’s understandable to worry, but not responding doesn’t always mean your child isn’t hearing you. Sometimes children on the spectrum need extra time to process sounds or are deeply focused on something else. Try gently touching their shoulder or getting to eye level before calling their name again.

That’s called echolalia, and it’s actually a common way some children learn to communicate. They might repeat phrases before learning how to use words in their own way. With time, modeling, and patience, those repeated words can turn into meaningful speech.

No. Those movements are often how he calms himself or expresses excitement. It’s called stimming and it’s completely natural. Unless he’s hurting himself or others, it’s best to let him be. Comfort can look different for every child.

That’s her way of playing right now. It may look different, but it’s still meaningful to her. You can gently join by sitting beside her and describing what she’s doing — “Your cars are in a perfect line.” Over time, she may start including you in her world.

Many children on the spectrum have sensitive hearing. Everyday sounds like a blender or a crowd can feel painful or overwhelming. You can help by keeping a pair of headphones nearby or finding quiet spaces when possible.

Yes. Understanding and speaking are two very different skills. Some children understand far more than they can express. Keep talking to your child naturally, and celebrate every small effort they make to communicate — even pointing or pulling your hand toward what they want.

Change can feel scary or unpredictable for many children with autism. Routines help them feel safe. You can ease transitions by talking about what’s coming next or using pictures to show what will happen during the day.

Stay calm. Your child needs your reassurance more than anything. Find a quieter spot if you can, and focus on keeping them safe. Meltdowns aren’t bad behavior; they’re signs of overload. Once they’re calm, comfort them and move on — no need to feel embarrassed.

You’re not alone. Many kids on the spectrum are sensitive to textures, smells, or how food looks. Keep offering small, no-pressure tastes of new foods while respecting their comfort zone. Consistency works better than force.

Not at all. Eye contact can feel intense or uncomfortable for some children. They might connect in other beautiful ways — a smile, a touch, or sitting close to you. Look for their way of showing love.

You can say something simple like, “My child’s brain works differently, and that’s what makes them special.” Share what helps your child feel calm or included. Sometimes people just need gentle guidance to see the world through your child’s eyes.

Prepare them early. Show pictures, practice at home, or use a social story. Bring a comfort item, headphones, or favorite snack. Praise them after each visit — even if it was hard. Over time, familiarity helps reduce fear.

Special interests are common and actually a strength. It means your child is passionate and focused. Use that interest as a bridge — if they love trains, use trains to teach counting, colors, or reading.

Start small. Invite one understanding child for a short, structured playdate with activities your child enjoys. Practice simple social skills at home — like taking turns or sharing. Friendships take time, but they can grow beautifully when both sides feel safe.

Focus on what’s meaningful, not what’s “normal.” Those behaviors may help your child regulate emotions. Instead of trying to stop them, find safe ways for them to express themselves and educate others with kindness.

Please know — you’re not failing. You’re learning, just like your child is. Some days will be hard, and that’s okay. The fact that you’re asking questions and seeking support means you’re doing an incredible job.

Sleep struggles are common in autism. Try a consistent bedtime routine — same time, same steps every night. Limit screens before bed and create a calm, dim environment. If sleep issues persist, talk to your child’s doctor; sometimes melatonin or behavioral therapy can help.

Every child’s journey is unique. Some will live independently, others may always need some support — and both are okay. Focus on building life skills early and celebrating every milestone. “Normal” is whatever allows your child to thrive and feel loved.

You can’t pour from an empty cup. Make time, even short moments, to rest, pray, or breathe. Ask for help — from family, support groups, or the We Are Autism Care Circle. Taking care of yourself makes you stronger for your child.

Yes. You are not alone. That’s why We Are Autism exists. Our parent community understands the tears, the small victories, and the deep love that comes with raising a child on the spectrum. Together, we learn, share, and grow stronger.