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The holiday season often brings excitement and family gatherings, but for many families raising children on the autism spectrum, it can also mean sensory overload and stress. As a parent, I’ve learned that the holidays don’t need to be perfect—what matters most is creating moments of peace, connection, and comfort.
I used to dread the holidays because I never knew what might trigger Marcus. Something as simple as a number candle on a cake could cause a meltdown. Over time, I learned to prepare by bringing familiar toys and comfort items, helping him stay calm and engaged. Communicating with family beforehand about triggers and calming strategies made gatherings smoother for everyone.
Keep routines steady—bedtime, meals, or familiar rituals—to bring comfort and calm.
Bring sensory tools, toys, and snacks your child enjoys. Ask family members to help with structured play or short activities.
Stick to foods your child likes—holidays are for connection, not conflict.
Find or set up a quiet corner for your child to relax if overwhelmed.
Show photos, talk through what to expect, and build predictability to reduce anxiety.
Do what feels right for your family—simple, meaningful traditions bring the most joy.
Remember to care for yourself, too. Step away when needed, breathe, and protect your peace. You deserve joy this season.
Plan for peace, not perfection—preparation turns stress into connection.
The holidays can be calm and meaningful when approached with love, understanding, and flexibility. Simplify, rest, and create a season that honors your child’s comfort and your well-being.
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My name is Charlene Pinnock**, and I’m the founder of *WeAre Autism*—a platform I created out of love for my son Marcus, who is on the autism spectrum. As a mother, advocate, and writer, I share educational articles based on my lived experiences, cultural background, and the everyday lessons I learn while raising a neurodivergent child. My goal is to support and empower other parents and caregivers, especially within the Jamaican community, by offering real stories, practical tips, and encouragement. You're not alone on this journey—and if no one else says it, I will: you're doing an amazing job.
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